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Saturday, December 27, 2014

Susan the Sloth Goes Zip Lining thru the Jungle!

                                                  
Susan ready to zip!

That would make a great Children's book title I think. Or a REAL title for my friend Susan's memoir! Maybe just Susan the Sloth for her title. I am sure I have shared Susan's story in the past, but she really does need to write a memoir I feel! Her story is just too incredible and inspiring NOT to share it with the world. She doesn't like to be considered inspirational, but she is anyway!

                     
Pure joy that face is!!

Of course the name is endearing, and not mean at all... even though it may sound that way. Susan LOVES sloths, which I found out on our trip to Costa Rica. And she kinda looks like a sloth when she smiles :0). And she definitely moves like a sloth! Again, endearing, not mean as Susan knows all this. When I called her Susan the Sloth in Costa Rica she smiled and shook her head yes! We didn't see any sloths in Costa Rica because we spent most of our time on the beach. However, our driver had taken a video of a sloth he had seen. He showed Susan that video and she loved it of course.
                                 


She really is a good sport <:0)
Susan's dream, and the whole reason we went to Costa Rica, was to zip line thru the jungle. I have to admit I was a little nervous about it, but if Susan wants to try something I am all for it! When we got to the zip line I was even more nervous. I just didn't see how it could possibly work out. But I have also seen some amazing things while hanging out with folks who have challenges to overcome. Plus the guys working there kept saying "No problem, we do this all the time". So we trusted them and Thank God we did!

WoooHoooo!!1
     
 It was truly amazing, fascinating, incredible, spectacular and a few other adjectives thown in, to watch these young men at work. There were 4 of them helping us. One guy would lift Susan out of her chair up to another guy. That guy would clip her onto the zip line, then clip himself to her and ZOOOOM, off they went. So cool to watch Susan's face!! THEN the 3rd guy would lift Susan's CHAIR up to the 4th guy and he would clip it in and clip himself and ZOOOOM, off they went! I was a little flabbergasted to be honest, because I didn't understand why they needed her chair so high in the trees?? Trust is a must.

                                   
Oops! My old eyes saw this wrong. This is Susan zipping away. Not her chair! 
This IS her chair zipping :0)


So then I went zipping behind them. At the platform I found out why they needed her chair. They got Susan down and put her in her chair and then they pushed her across a SWINGING BRIDGE!! I kid you not! It was perhaps the most riveting thing I have ever seen. All of it was totally safe too, I promise! Susan had the time of her life and so did I!!

                               
Swinging Bridge fun!


After 3 zips, the guys looked at us and said "We have a short cut where you can do 3 more zips and be done or we can go the long way where there is a super fast one". I am not sure if they wanted us to take the short route or expected us to? But I do know they didn't know Susan like I do. Even though I knew the answer I asked her what she wanted to do. Susan is aware of herself and she never wants to be a burden on others (and she is NOT), so she meekly said "I would like to go on the fast one if that is OK". The guys were like "Sure, no problem" and off we went!

                                     
Super fast zip! It was about 100 yards long too!


They truly weren't put off at all. I think they get some people who just don't know what zipping is all about and they WANT to do the short cut. Just not Susan :0).


The Crew! We Thank You!
So as the New Year comes to be... you may find some challenges come your way... think of Susan and realize that ANY challenge can truly be overcome with some hard work, determination, trust AND faith!!

    Now Go Out and Hug Your Friends Today!!!

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Someday At Christmas




I have probably sent this out before, but it seems more and more poignant each and every year. Will war ever end? Will children ever live in a world of TOTAL peace? Can we stop their suffering? Or do we just pray that they will be taken care of in the next phase of whatever is next? I don't know the answers of course, but I think it helps to stimulate our emotions this way and stimulate conversations about what we can do to help in this lifetime.

I love this song and video which was done by two humanitarian clowns who have traveled to Russia with Patch. Maybe other places too? I don't know them personally.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHbnGnr9f6A

Enjoy the video for what it is. An offering of Love, Peace, and Empathy! Cry, Laugh, be Emotional. You have my permission :0).

Now Go Out and Hug a Child Today!!!



Saturday, December 20, 2014

Emanuel, What an Appropriate Christmas Gift



Susan and I were in Costa Rica just before Christmas, as most of you know. And we got a very pleasant early Christmas Gift. It came from a man named Emanuel. How appropriate is that? He had a demeanor and kindness in his eyes that I imagine Jesus might have had.

Emanuel was standing behind us, while we waited for dinner, playing some music softly. He looked at me and asked "Does she like my music". I asked Susan and she asked "Can he play louder?". He replied "No, I really can't", but then proceeded to pull up a chair and sit right next to Susan so she could hear better. Over the next 30 minutes he played beautiful music for us! What a gift!



An even better gift was getting to know him a bit. During his playing of some Bach, Susan asked if he knew any Vivaldi or any Aspergios? I don't even know what make of cars those are personally, but Emanuel knew. He said he used to be able to play Aspergios some before he developed Parkinsons. I hadn't even noticed his tremors til that point. His music certainly was beautiful. He played some Aspergios for Susan and apologized for not being very good. No apology necessary!! We loved his playing!

Susan offered him a tip, thinking he was working... he said "Oh no, I don't play for money. I am just here on vacation and I bought this cheap guitar to play while here, just for fun". We were sure glad he did and that he shared his gift of music with us! It truly was one of the biggest treats we could have ever received at Christmas time.

              Thank You Emanuel!!!

Now Go Out and Hug a Musician Today!!

Monday, December 1, 2014

Daniel, My Brother





Mark Ogle started S.A.C.C.A. with the help of his wife Naomi and some Rwandans. I had the honor of visiting S.A.C.C.A. in 2006. The BEST Christmas I have ever had, hands down! While there I met a lot of great young children who lived on the streets for various reasons, but were getting help from S.A.C.C.A. The kids there are not my brothers of course, but I consider all the young men I met there as brothers.


One in particular was Daniel, My Brother. Below is a photo of him and I. Loved his smile and attitude! Remember, he lives on the streets in Rwanda, yet has a smile to light up a room.


I got an email recently from my friend Mark with the photo attached. In his email Mark told me that Daniel had emailed him (in perfect English) to let him know he completed his senior year with amazing marks and is hoping to get a government sponsorship for University! Of course, the government would be foolish not to sponsor him!


It amazes me how a young man who grew up on the street could graduate "high school" and learn to speak a second language fluently! Truly incredible and I am truly thankful I got to meet him and others. And I am thankful for people like Mark and Naomi who start programs to help kids like Daniel!








Daniel and I in Rwanda

Now Go Out and Hug a Brother or Sister Today!!!



Thursday, November 27, 2014

Be Thankful!!!





I am sure I have shared this video in the past, either via my blog or email. It is worthy to share again and remind us all to be THANKFUL for what we have this Holiday Season!

When you watch the video, it is OK to laugh, and to cry and to remember! I do EVERY time I watch it. Enjoy the people who surround you with love and laughter today, because they may be gone tomorrow. I certainly HOPE not, but you never really know do you.


The teacher on the left hasn't smiled since the tragedy in 2004! This photo was taken in 2012! However, by the end of my trip to Beslan in 2012 she DID SMILE!! Her coworkers were amazed! Not sure what exactly turned her around, but something about the clowns is powerful. Also, I went back to Beslan in 2013 and she smiled even more! Not all the time, but still enough to know she was having a break through!


Now Go Out and Hug a Teacher or Student Today!!!




Monday, November 17, 2014

You Can't Handle the Goof (A Breakup Song)

So, when I arrived in Madison in September, I started dating a woman. Shocker, I know. We had communicated for a month leading up to our first meet and greet. After meeting we spent almost everyday together for a month. After a 24 hour period of goofiness, she said she wasn't interested in dating  me anymore. In her words she said "I'm turned off".

Now a month isn't long to be dating someone, but I personally felt a big connection with this woman and when she "dumped" me it hurt pretty bad I Must Say... to borrow words from Ed Grimley. We truly seemed to get along in every sense of the word. She was fun and a little quirky, goofy just like me... or so I thought. But apparently I was too much of a goof for her and she said she couldn't handle it. We had actually joked around with each other about OTHER people not being able to Handle the Goof. On a hike she actually said "You Can't Handle the Goof" in a Jack Nicholson type voice. She did Russia accents with me, and many other fun goofy things. So, I still don't understand what happened exactly?


Well, to help myself get thru the pain I felt, I decided to turn to humor. My strongest ally! I wrote a goofy song to make myself laugh, and it worked. I hope it makes you laugh too! I posted it on you tube, which I don't really like to do. But my friend Danny Donuts said I should. Danny and his wife Barb are in the video and I can't thank them enough for helping me with it and more importantly for making it so much funnier!!



Watch the video below, knowing it is all in good fun and it is SUPPOSED to be goofy!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IL08r0ETMM4


Now Go Out and Hug a Goof Today!!!

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

OK, Go!

There is a fun group out there called OK, Go! They do fun and creative videos.






This video was shared on www.2guysphoto.com.






I felt it was worthy enough to share! What do you think?






http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u1ZB_rGFyeU


Now Go Out and Hug Someone Today!!

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Dancing With The Stars

Apparently there is a TV show called "Dancing With The Stars"... But the REAL STARS in my opinion are my friend Teagan and his Grandma! Watch the video below and let me know if you agree!!


http://www.ksl.com/?nid=1286&sid=32133074#i2AGkiBHSDiqx5rU.01




Also, check out Teagan's FB page to follow his smiling face! And let him and his Grandma know I am still following and I give them a 9.9 on their dance... I almost never give a 10.


https://www.facebook.com/pages/Teagans-Incredible-Heart/723801467672784





He Really is Super!!


Now Go Out and Hug a Dancer Today!!!
                                   

Saturday, October 11, 2014

Landon Donovan Tribute

                                 Landon Donovan is LD the LegenD


Landon Donovan played his last game for the USA soccer team last night. I felt a tribute was in order. Even for non soccer fans, I feel you have to appreciate what Landon has accomplished in a country where soccer typically takes a back seat to the other sports. Yes, it is the most played sport in America by our youth, but when it comes to TV and recognition on other levels, it is lacking. Landon has at least elevated that recognition some. If you don't believe me, watch the tribute video below.



http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/soccer-dirty-tackle/u-s--federation-posts-emotional-landon-donovan-tribute-video-ahead-of-his-final-match-013237286.html

Do you believe in miracles? Yes, that tagline will forever  be linked to the USA hockey team of 1980 thanks to the infamous words expressed by Al Michaels. And for good reason... It is a moment in time forever linked in my mind. I have fond memories of that day as I watched a sport I knew little about as a 12 year old in Ohio.


Well that tagline could also be linked to Landon Donovan's goal against Algeria in the 2010 World Cup. Watch the video below to see what I mean


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wm7ievQ2bHo




Our country's reaction to Landon's goal is unprecedented in my opinion. Don't believe me? Watch the video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbn3rOPmR9w


To me, Landon has done as much for the sport of soccer in America as many other LegenDary sports figures. He deserves to be recognized for his accomplishments in my humble opinion. To me, his story transcends sports. Here is what I mean.


He grew up like any typical child in America. Middle Class. His mom was a special education teacher. Nothing extravagant or fancy in his up bringing. As a child he found something he loved and was passionate about and he ran with it... literally! This is where it transcends sports to me. Every child out there could find something they are passionate about and make it what they want. Whether that is in athletics or in science, music, teaching, medicine, innovation, comedy or anything else you want to be passionate about. So, to the youth of America I say go out and make your life what you want it to be and inspire others as Landon has.



                            Thank You Landon. We salute you! We send you a kiss goodbye!

            Now Go Out and Hug a Soccer Player Today!!!

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Creative Arts and Changing the Game




Below is a link to a 10 minute video about my friend Emily Cavanagh. As you all know I rave about Emily's talent as a singer/songwriter. Her music is going to be featured on a documentary called "Changing The Game". No release date yet, but look for it! I will remind you when it gets released.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G0An3-JcaRM


I should also rave about her other talents! Like engaging young adults in the Creative Arts. I can vouch for her impressiveness in person. I imagine the program she runs in The South Bronx is just as impressive as her!


The program in the South Bronx was started by her. She helps former homeless people and kids aging out of Foster Care to express themselves and find a voice by using music. She has applied for a grant to start a program in Ireland. If she receives it, she will start a program in Ireland with the same mission. Her roots are Irish, so it seems appropriate to me! Ireland will be lucky to have her if they choose her. But WE ARE LUCKY to have her here in The United States now!!


She is also a strong proponent of other causes, like helping people who have survived Genocidal Wars. Maybe she will travel to Rwanda someday to perform "Dark Was The Night"? That would be a dream!


Continue to support her music, so she can continue to enhance the lives around her!


You can get her music on ITunes, Amazon, and listen to her on Pandora and mora!



Now Go Out and Hug a Singer/Songwriter Today!!!








Thursday, September 25, 2014

She Rox




I have a beautiful, talented cousin... who knew? She has written a book about a rock and roll prodigy, who just happens to be a woman with a "guys" name. I read the book in 4 days, which is extremely fast for me :0). If you are looking for a fun, entertaining book to read... I highly recommend this one! Not just because it was written by my cousin Kelly, but because it is a great read! Check it out on Amazon.


http://www.amazon.com/She-Rox-Rock-Novel-Kelly-McGettigan-ebook/dp/B00MGBOE94/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1411655558&sr=8-1&keywords=she+rox#customerReviews


The name of the book is called She Rox. It is about a 16 year old rock-n-roll prodigy from a well to do family, who bucks the trend of the family and goes to LA to find her own way. She finds it well and in her own way. An inspiring book for ALL young women out there who might be afraid to take chances and be their own person. This book is fictional of course, but I am sure a lot of it is drawn from my cousin's personal experiences. She is too modest and humble to admit it maybe, but I know!


Now Go Out and Hug a Musician Today!!!



Sunday, September 21, 2014

Now THAT is thinking differently!! Autistic kids are amazing!



Below is a homework project done by an autistic kid. It took me a few minutes to figure out what he was thinking. And how RIGHT he was with his answer!! Do you see it?


His answer is 100% correct!!!






Now go Out and Hug an Autistic Person Today!!!


Friday, September 19, 2014

Hope for the Future

Hello everyone. It has been a while, sorry about that. Been busy with moving and traveling a bit. Fall is in the air, and it is time to share. Below is a video done by 2 young men I have never met. One is a friend's nephew in Australia. The other is his friend. These 2 young men give me hope that our world will be OK. It is an 18 minute video... if you have time to watch it all, it is impressive how they thought it out, put it together, and how it might impact the world someday! If you only have a few minutes, at least watch the first 3 or 4 minutes and you will get the gist of what they area about!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RoY9KhiKKpI


Water is so important to our lives and most of us take it for granted, me included!


It is after all, The Nectar of Life!


Feel free to share this with friends on FB and whatever. The word needs to be spread even more. And if you are interested in helping... there are organizations out there to use as conduits. I have recently learned about an organization called SSAAP.

www.ssaap.org

Check it out.      Let me know if you "dive" into the water!

Now Go Out and Hug Someone Today!!!

Thursday, August 7, 2014

My FRIEND Teagan and his Incredible Heart

Hello dear friends. As many of you know me, you know I am truly blessed with many MANY friends! I love each and everyone of you. I really am blessed beyond my own worth! But I am not one to argue, as you also know :0).


Well today I had to say goodbye to one of my dearest and best buds... Teagan! I have had the honor and privilege of clowning around at Primary Children's Hospital for the past 9 months. It is there that I met Teagan and we instantly became friends! His smile, his spirit, his attitude, his sense of fun and mischief is just too contagious not to infect you with his friendship! Thank you Teagan!!


Today was my last day of clowning at the hospital as I prepare to move to Wisconsin. It is a very bitter sweet move, especially when I have to say "See you later" to friends like Teagan! I know no matter where I am, I will ALWAYS be connected to Teagan.


He has taught me things I could never learn from anyone but him. And I THANK him for that too. Like all the names of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and how to tell them apart. Like how to laugh in the face of pain! He taught me which hurts more... "getting a shot" or "having a dressing change".. it is "having a dressing change". I never knew that. It will help me be a better nurse to the kids I get to care for! And he has taught me so much more that he will never even know about. So THANKS TEAGAN!!!


Teagan has a Facebook page. You all know I am not on Facebook. But luckily I can look at his Facebook page without signing up. I can follow his antics, and I will know when he gets his new heart! That will be one of the happiest days of my life for sure! You can check out his page too if you like. The link is below.


http://www.facebook.com/pages/Teagans-Incredible-Heart/723801467672784




It would be very nice if one of my friends out there who reads this could post it on Teagan's Facebook. And PLEASE tell Teagan that his good old buddy old pal Chip and Chip's sidekick Freddie will miss him! We hope to play with him again someday, when we come back to Utah for visits! I look forward to running and laughing and playing with him AND his brother Mason in a park or somewhere besides the hospital!


I could go on and on and on and on about my friend, but I don't want to over do it either. So read his Facebook and the story below to learn more. I know you will fall in love with his smile and attitude thru the photos and stories you will read.


http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865605510/Teagans-incredible-heart-One-Utah-familys-fight-for-their-little-superhero.html?pg=all#ODxwdZZhuikUHRXY.01

"Teagan is The Incredible Heart. Some might say he is an Incredible Fart.. lovingly of course. He is Lean and Mean and Green like The Turtles, but not really Mean or even Green. He is FAST like Dash, which is his middle name. He loves to laugh and play fun games. He is my friend and I will never forget him, for as long as I am living!"  Chip the Clown


Now Go Out and Hug and Incredible Kid Today!!!

Monday, August 4, 2014

It's official...

Ok, so it is official now. I am a traveling nurse again starting Sept. 8th! I am very excited! I will be in Madison, Wisconsin for the best time of year... Autumn! After that, who knows? Could stay there. Could keep traveling. Could come back to Utah. Could retire? Ok, maybe not retire, just seeing if you are paying attention.


So, anyone wanting to come visit me in Wisconsin. Just email me!!


Now Go Out and Hug a Badger Today!!!
Not a real badger of course :0)

Friday, August 1, 2014

Decision Day

So, as you all know I set August 1st as my deadline to make my decision. Well, I have made my decision.... However, there is a caveat... I have decided to take an assignment in Madison, Wisconsin! The only niche is that they haven't confirmed yet. They said they would let me know for sure next week. So, next week I will know 100% sure if I am heading to Madison and being a traveler again? Or staying in Utah. It is all up to Madison now. To Be Continued!!

Don't you love a cliff hanger?? Ha Ha.


Now Go Out and Hug Someone Today!!!

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Nicknames

This will be a fun blog post to tell you all about my numerous nicknames I have acquired over the years. My friends Lori and Seal write a blog now called Pickles and Pusses. Two of their nicknames. They have several other nicknames for each other and wrote a post about it. I told them I had about 20 nicknames myself, and they encouraged me to write about them for their readers. So here are my nicknames and how I got them for their readers and for MINE.

My given name is Rodney. Some folks call me Rod, which is not technically a nickname I guess. My initials are R.E.D., but strangely enough nobody has ever called me Red. My clown name is Chip, which is really just a nickname that makes me laugh when I hear it. Some of my other nicknames are variations of Rod and or Chip.

One of my first nicknames was "The Rod". My bowling team mates would call me that whenever I threw a strike, which happened to be quite often back in the day.

Below is a list of my other nicknames. I will tell stories about some of them that make me laugh.

Rodster, Rodman, Rod Dog, Dirty Dog, Dog Star, Captain Caveman, Slick, Rodiknee, Rotteny, Chip, Chipster, Chippy, Chipmeister Meisterchip, Chiparoo, Chiparooni, Med Man, Rodders, Chipper, Catch, Pasquale, Mayor, Rodinator, Legs, Cheeeeep, Chipskii, Wodney, and "Chippy Chippy Chippy"

Pasquale is never used anymore, but it might be the funniest story. As a teenager I would play poker on Friday nights at a friend's house. His uncles would play too. One night his very drunk uncle said "Hey Pasquale, get me a beer". Nobody moved because none of us were named Pasquale. After a couple of minutes he looked me square in the eye and said "Pasquale! Did you hear me? I said get me a beer". I guess I was Pasquale? Because that is much easier to say than "Rodney", when you are drunk. Ha Ha.

A traveling friend calls me Rod Dog. She is from Iowa and apparently they used to sell hot dogs at the county fair called Rod Dogs. She calls me that to this day. But a funnier twist on that story is her boyfriend at the time (now her husband) calls me Dirty Dog. The first night I met him he was with my friend and I was with 5 other traveling nurses, all of which were beautiful women! So he considered me a dirty dog after that. Ha Ha.

Med Man is a camp nickname. The counselors didn't want to just call me nurse. My main job at camp is to pass out the meds. So I was The Med Man.

Rodders comes from my British friends. Also from camp. Some call me "Plunker" but I don't consider that a nickname. It is just a term of endearment. Check out "Only Fools and Horses" if you can. It is a British sitcom with a character named Rodney in it.

Captain Caveman came from another traveling friend. At the time I met her I didn't have a lap top. I didn't even text. I was, and still am, a very simple person. Much like a caveman. She added the Captain to make it sound funnier I think.

Strangely enough, I have been called "Slick" at 2 very different times in my life by 2 very different people who have never met each other. They both just decided to call me Slick out of the blue one day. No explanation from either person.

Rodiknee and Wodney both come from children. They couldn't pronounce  Rodney correctly and it came out Rodiknee from one child and Wodney by another. Quite cute to hear a 3 year old and a 4 year old call me by those names.

Catch was technically given to me by a patient. She told one of my fellow nurses that I was quite a "Catch". I think she was trying to give a hint to my coworker, of course she was under the influence of drugs at the time. My friend that she told that to calls me Catch to this day.

Having the last name of Daly lends some discussion to various people. One coworker decided to call me Mayor, knowing the Mayor of Chicago has the same last name.

Chip is my clown name. It was a nickname a dear friend gave me in nursing school. One day out of the blue she called me Chip. Nobody, including her, had ever called me that. I thought I heard her wrong til she called me Chip again. I had to ask why she called me Chip? She said in a gruff voice "Because you have a CHIP in your brain". I just happened to do well on a dosages and calculations test that day. I am good at simple math I admit. It makes me laugh to this day. Mostly because I do NOT have a chip in my brain, and partly because of the way she said it and how mad she was about it.

There are various forms of Chip including the Russian version Chipskii. Also Cheeeeep, from some beautiful Russian girls who can't pronounce the short "i" sound from the English language. Other forms of Chip always make me smile, but none more than... Chippy Chippy Chippy!

Yes, it has to be said 3 times, but that is Seal's and Lori's story to tell... so check out their blog to see if they ever tell that story?!

http://picklesandpusses.wordpress.com/

Their blog post about their nicknames is below.

 http://picklesandpusses.wordpress.com/2014/07/21/you-called-me-what/

So there you have it. My list of nicknames. There may be others actually, I can't always remember them all :0). Hopefully I didn't bore you with these details, but remember I could have told you about ALL of them!

Now Go Out and Hug a Friend Today!!!
 

Monday, July 21, 2014

I'm Happy

I'm Happy. I do like that song. Kind of a theme song for me. This post is not necessarily about my happiness, but about how I come to be happy. Believe it or not, it is a conscious effort to be happy! I do have a natural "tendency" to be happy which makes it easier for me to be happy most of the time, but not always. So I make an effort to project happiness.

I like how the Dalai Lama puts it...



Some of my friends would be highly surprised to know that I actually have a little mean, condescending, jerky streak in me! True story! Luckily I have learned to suppress that part of me most of the time. But it does still come out some. Usually when I am tired or hungry.  Is it an innate part of me? A product of my up bringing? That is the big mystery question that probably will never be answered. Kind of like the Egg or The Chicken question.

Anyway, I want to be happy and project happy, kind, loving thoughts... so I try to do that as best as I can. It is who I want to be, so it is what I put my effort into. However, the mean condescending jerky part of me does give me perspective on others who are mean or condescending at times. At least I feel it does. I feel I have a better understanding of these people because of my own inadequacy. So it teaches me tolerance to a small degree. And forgiveness. It has to start with my own forgiveness. So I choose to forgive myself for those times I am not what I want to be. This helps me to forgive others, and hopefully my friends who notice that part of me have forgiven me too! I think they do :0).

Now this is not to say that those people are bad people! "Au contraire". They may just be having a bad day. They need to be forgiven too. And it is not to say that happy people are always the best kind of people. It is just the way I choose to live. It works for me.

I do believe most people want to be happy and want to project kind thoughts (Ann Frank agrees I hear). So when you come across a mean or condescending person, don't judge them but instead offer an alternative to their mood... offer Kindness, or Happiness as an alternative. Maybe even offer a FREE HUG!! Or just a handshake! Or if you have the time, an open ear to bend. You may just change their attitude, mood, or even more importantly their life! All be it in a small way, but a small positive change is better than no change, right?!

If you can't change their mood in that moment, don't be discouraged! You may have interjected enough that later in the day they will think of you and smile. It is quite possible!!

My favorite quote relates to this blog and it is attributed to none other than Groucho Marx!!


                                                            

No Go Out and Hug Someone Happily!!!
 

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Positively Absolutely Undoubtedly Maybe

These are 4 words I variably live by. Sometimes they all come together. Most recently this has been my mantra. Stay in Utah, leave Utah, try something new... which could mean staying long term or it could mean traveling again. Sometime before Sept. 1st I will have made a decision. It changes daily as it seems to be on the brink of being a Positively Undoubted answer til the next day when it becomes an Absolutely Maybe answer and so on. Wishy Washy I know. That is me at my best though. So stay tuned to learn the great mystery answer....



This is how I look when I can't make up my mind. Look familiar??!

Now Go Out and Hug Someone Positively Absolutely!

Monday, June 30, 2014

Awesomenistic

What do you get when you cross Awesomeness with Optimism? You get a 9 year old who says he is
"Awesomenistic"!! That might be my new favorite word of all time. Better than Fantabulous even!

I have not met this 9 year old personally, but he has already impacted my life and attitude. Whether he knows it or not. He is a 9 year old who has had some horrific situations to overcome in such a short life!

How would you feel or be if you lost both parents and a sister in a car accident? On top of that you would have serious injuries that make it so you have to live in a group home. Not sure about you, but I am pretty sure I would be angry, depressed, anxious, and a few other adjectives!

But not this 9 year old apparently. Every time he meets someone who asks him how he is, he replies with an enthusiastic "I am Awesomenistic!!" Man, what fortitude, gratitude, attitude this young man must have. I sure hope I get to meet him someday! In the mean time I am going to live my life as Awesomenistic as I possibly can! Will you join me?!





Now Go Out and Hug Someone with Awesomenism!!

Friday, May 30, 2014

Meet Bryce

I recently went down to Bryce Canyon National Park. I remember it being beautiful when I visited 14 years ago, but not this beautiful. The last time I only viewed from the view points. This time I hiked down into the canyon. Every turn offered a familiar view, but also a totally different view. 129 photos may seem like too many, but then again if you have been there it may seem like too few. I hope you enjoy meeting Bryce thru my lens with the album link below.

https://picasaweb.google.com/115540571890023914632/BryceNP?authuser=0&feat=directlink



A gazillion photos have been taken at Bryce. I took some of the usual photos, but tried to give some different views as well. Mostly via the Fish Eye lens. My way of being "artsy". I plan on other trips to other National Parks in Utah. Look for Zion, Capitol Reef, Arches and Canyonlands sometime this summer.



There is a trail called Fairyland Canyons at the beginning of Bryce. Looked like fun, so I plan on going back to do that too. Anyone else out there been to Bryce? Photos to share? Please do. Any suggestions or recommendations for the other National Parks I mentioned, please share.


"Life is a great adventure…accept it in such a spirit." Thomas Jefferson

Now Go Out and Hug and Adventurer Today!!!

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Do you like pickled frogs?

So I recently had the pleasure of taking care of an extraordinary 6 year old. Every day I am amazed at what I learn from the kids who come thru my care. Let me tell you about her now.

This 6 year old came in from a group home for a procedure. She came with a transport person, no parents with her. I don't know her whole story or her parent's, if they are even alive. This young lady lives with a trach and relies on a ventilator to breath for her just to keep her alive. Connected to tubing 24hrs a day. I can't imagine what she could be happy about or positive about, but trust me she is one of the most positive and happy 6 year olds I have ever met.



She greeted me with a "Hi!!!" and bright eyes complete with a huge smile. I said hi back and asked if she was ready for her procedure. She said "Yes!!!". All of her answers were enthusiastic and positive, and I am sure were followed by at least 3 exclamation points if typed out :0).

No matter what I asked her, her answers were "Yes!!!". Do you want a warm blanket? "Yes!!!". Do you like this movie? "Yes!!!". Do you like Barbies? "Yes!!!" EVERY answer was the same, complete with bright eyes and a huge smile.

I mentioned she is 6 years old. Developmentally she might have been 2 or 3 or even 6. She didn't converse much, so it was hard to judge. I thought I would test her POSITIVETY. I decided to ask her "Do you like pickled frogs?".... she thought for a few seconds... scrunched her face up and said "NOOOOOOOO!!!!"

I nearly fell over, as I was expecting a Yes!!! Clearly she knew every question I was asking her. Her scrunched up face relayed a message of "Why would you ask me that?"... and it reinforced that all of her positive answers were GENUINE! One truly, genuinely happy positive girl.

                 I LOVE HER FOR TEACHING ME THAT!!

        Now Go Out and Hug A Child with Positivety!!!

Saturday, May 10, 2014

Seven Words To Live By

Hello everyone. Some of you know, I gave a speech on "Humor in Nursing" in Las Vegas. I spoke in front of 750 other nurses and I didn't pass out or throw up! Success! At the end of my speech I shared a story with the audience. It is 100% true. I know, because I was there. I would like to share that story with you now. At the end of the story you will read 7 words that I believe everyone should live by, especially if you are a caregiver. This may be a long post, but I think you will enjoy it. So grab a snack and a drink and read on.  Please do share comments on how it makes you feel, if you use it in your practice or if you  have stories like this to share. I WANT to hear them!!!

For those of you who read this and don't know me.... I was a pediatric nurse at Primary Children's Hospital in Salt Lake City. Clowning is a hobby. I also incorporate inner clowning in my nursing. Inner clowning is a little different than "regular" clowning. It is basically using  personality traits within your heart to help you reach your patients, your coworkers, your friends, whoever! The main traits of all "inner clowns" are love, kindness and understanding. EVERY caregiver I have ever worked with has at least one of these traits. These are the traits that make us choose to be caregivers.  Therefore I believe all caregivers have an inner clown within them.

This story is THE BEST inner clowning moment of my career to date! I have been a nurse for 22 years and I have seen and heard a ton of amazing things/stories. But this story is the one that resonates with me louder than any other, and I hope it resonates with you also.

So, I was working in Pre Op one day. The charge nurse asked me to give versed to a 13 year old. I said "OK". For those of you who don't know, versed is a medicine we give to kids sometimes to help them with their anxiety of surgery. It is very useful at times. We don't typically give it to 13 year olds, but sometimes 13 year olds are extremely anxious too or they have some developmental delays that prevent them from understanding what is happening to them. I don't know anything about this kid other than his name and age.

I went into exam room 4 to see him. As I walked into the room, his mom and the anesthesiologist were in the room chatting, and he was sitting on the exam table looking down at the wall. He was small for his age and clearly didn't want to have anything to do with this procedure.

I walked in as my happy nursing self and said "Hey Adam (name change), My name is Rodney and I have your medicine that is going to help you relax". He gruffly said "I don't want to drink that poison!" Whew, this was gonna be a little tougher than I thought. So, I tried to use my nursing "skills" on him by saying "I imagine you are very nervous. That is totally understandable. Most of the kids who come here are nervous and don't know what to expect. You have every right to feel that way. But that is why we have this medicine. It can help you to relax so you can get your procedure done and the anesthesiologist can do his job". He said "I don't want to drink it!!".

The anesthesiologist, who I have GREAT respect for, then said "OK Adam, you have two choices then. You can either drink this medicine to help you relax or I will have to give you a shot in the arm to help you relax. It is your choice".  As caregivers, we all hate it when we have to give a kid a shot for anything. But sometimes that is what has to be done to get the procedure done. It is not a threat from the anesthesiologist, rather he is giving the kid a choice. The choices suck, but it is a choice. Adam just clammed up and kept looking down.

This was where my inner clown came out... my inner clown asked the anesthesiologist and the mom to leave the room. How do I know this was my inner clown? Besides the fact it felt like an out of body experience (Honestly!!), I as a nurse would not typically ask a doctor to leave a room, and I especially would NEVER ask a parent to leave a room and leave me alone with their child. It is unthinkable to me as a nurse. But my inner clown knew it was what was needed somehow.

Luckily the anesthesiologist and I have a good rapport, so he and the mom left the room.

This kid was scared, he was angry, he was small for his age and I am certain he is picked on a lot in his life because of his size and what seemed to be some social awkwardness. My inner clown took control of the situation and handled it perfectly. Luckily I know my inner clown well and I know when to stay out of the way. I understand this may sound hokey to some, but it truly felt like an out of body experience!

My inner clown proceeded to sit down in a chair in front of Adam. He was UP on the exam table and I was below him in a chair. My inner clown already defused some of the threat in the room by asking people to leave. By sitting down below Adam it also made Adam "bigger" and seemingly in more control. I am sure my inner clown knew this was a good thing to do. Adam still didn't look at me and I didn't look at him. He looked at the wall and I looked down at his feet, but I could see his reactions peripherally. So my inner clown said "Tell me Adam, what kind of things do you like?" I saw Adam glance at me quickly and then back to the wall. I could tell he was surprised by the question. He probably thought I was going to try and convince him to take the medicine, but my inner clown took a different route. Adam said "What do you mean?". I could tell he probably wasn't into sports with his size and awkwardness... so I said "Do you like to read? Music? Games?" He said "I like video games". My inner clown came alive and said "Cool, I love video games too". Adam had on a shirt with a video game on it. I think it was an army game of some kind, maybe Black Hawk Down or something, I really don't remember. But my inner clown referenced it and said "Is that your favorite game?". Adam looked down at his shirt and then at me and said "That is a fun game, but it is not my favorite".  I said "What is?". He said "G-mod". Now I know a little about video games, but I had never heard of G-mod. So my inner clown said "I don't know that one. Tell me all about it.". Adam proceeded to explain this game. As best as I can tell it is a shootem up violent kind of game, and you can modify the scenery as you go. I don't like to promote violence of any kind, but my inner clown knew this is what Adam needed at this time. Plus it seemed like Adam was a hero killing bad guys in the game. For a violent game, it seemed relatively harmless in that context. My inner clown listened intently, interjecting questions appropriately and even being lively at times with a small chuckle here and there. Adam became a little more lively too and chuckled a little as well. I don't know what is funny about a violent video game to be honest, but my inner clown did. Adam gradually looked at me more and more and so I gradually looked at him more and more. Then the mom and the anesthesiologist popped back in and asked how we were doing. I said "We are doing great, we just need a few more minutes please". Luckily they left. In retrospect I feel this was a good interruption as my inner clown showed Adam that his story about the video game was way more important than the doctor or the time. He continued talking about the game for another minute or so. At the end we were looking each other eye to eye. Then we chuckled a little more and sat in silence for about 30 seconds or so. Finally, Adam jumped off the exam table and said "I guess I am ready now". I said "Oh, so you want to take the medicine now?". Adam said "Nah, I don't need that medicine".... and what he said next was the most profound, amazing, mind blowing thing I have ever heard in my entire career and life! It was just seven words and it blew me out of the water!! What he said was....................

                      "I Guess I Just Needed To Laugh"

I kid you not!! Those were his exact words!! "I guess I just needed to laugh"!! I was stunned to be honest. I always knew laughter was important and that it works, but those 7 words from that young man were the most amazing words ever!! I didn't even realize we were really laughing. Sure we chuckled a little, but not belly laughing or anything like that. So, I also learned that ANY kind of laughter is good laughter.

We walked out of the room and the mom and anesthesiologist were outside the door. Adam and I kept walking towards the procedure room talking, but I saw the mom and anesthesiologist in my periphery. They had a look on their face that said "What just happened??" It was soooo funny!

As Adam and I walked next to each other he told me a little joke and I laughed. So I decided to tell him one of my favorite jokes and he laughed. We got to the procedure room, with the anesthesiologist right behind us, and Adam hopped up on the table, laid his head down in the blue "donut" pillow. The anesthesiologist put a mask on his face and he was asleep in a minute or so. No kicking or crying, and NO medicine. It was all nice and peaceful. The anesthesiologist looked at me and said "What did you do?". I honestly replied "I have no idea!" And I really didn't at the time. A lot of this understanding came to me in retrospect and the most important thing is worth repeating one more time... I guess the kid just needed to laugh!!!

     Now Go Out and Hug Someone Today AND Laugh!!

Friday, May 2, 2014

My friend Donna "NJ Resident of the Year"

So, what does The Resident of the Year for the state of New Jersey look like?? She looks like THIS!


                                   Donna Kaminski "New Jersey Resident of the Year".
                                  (Her humble, "are you really taking a picture of me" look)

For those of you in the medical field, you know what an accomplishment and honor it is to be voted as the Resident of the Year for a whole state!! For those of you not in the medical field, a resident is a doctor who is still training after getting thru medical school and internships. So, not a resident as someone who lives in NJ, but a resident doctor who works in NJ.

What you don't know is how truly amazing it is. It is not surprising to me that Donna has been voted this honor, because I KNOW her well! But the path she took to get there is a little unconventional and noteworthy!

Donna had a career working with HIV positive people in NYC when she decided she wanted to go to medical school. An advisor told her she probably wouldn't get in... not because she wasn't worthy, but because of other factors. Age, test scores, etc. Donna pursued her dream anyway, and believe me she looks at being a doctor as a DREAM! It is a dream for her patients that is for sure!

Donna started med school in her late 20s or early 30s... not the norm. English is not her first language, so test taking does not come easy for her. Nobody else in her family is in medicine. Even though she had great support from her family, they could not help her with studies and medical stuff.

Donna works harder than anyone I know. She is more dedicated than ANY doctor or nurse I have ever met personally, and believe me I KNOW some amazing nurses and doctors. It is not a slight to them, but a tribute to Donna!! She, being humble, would never admit to this of course :0).


                                                        Donna laughing it up in NYC

She is forever inspiring me to be a better nurse! She always looks at her patient first and listens to them and tries to do everything in her power to help them! If their disease is beyond her medical expertise, she will still BE THERE for them! Her dedication is unparalleled!

She has told me stories of some of her patients from her residency. I don't know any other resident who would have done the things she has done! It would take a book to write it all here, but trust me it is totally true! I presume she will have a book written about her some day. Probably a new technique or procedure named after her. A few more awards in her future. And most important, a few thousand HAPPY patients that she is their doctor!!! 

If that is not enough to inspire you... and believe me you should be INSPIRED by Dr. Kaminski... She also travels to places like Malawi and Rwanda to deliver medical care to the sick and poor. Bono would be proud to know her I think. She did all this while still going thru med school and residency! Tireless effort, unflappable love, and dedicated care beyond measure. That is my friend!!!

       Now Go Out and Hug a Resident Today!!!

Monday, April 21, 2014

On Your Mark...

I bought running shoes. Stunning revelation I know. Today is the Boston Marathon, one year after the horrific cowardice of two young men. Runners are unique individuals I am learning. I am NOT a "runner", but I CAN run! So, I am going to run with my new shoes as much as I feel like I can and want to. Above is a quote I am placing as a tribute to the runners of today in Boston and all the runners who know what it means.

I don't enjoy running, but there are a lot of things I do in life that I don't necessarily enjoy and they are still good for me. It is a different challenge for me and one I am going to take on as best as I can.


Now Go Out and Hug a Runner Today!!!

 

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Ohioans are good people, even when they go to Michigan to play basketball

Came across this story about Adreian Payne and Lacey Holsworth. I find it inspirational. Give your time, love a child... whether it be yours or someone else's child. Get a horrific disease... fight it with all you got and with a smile on your face. Adreian is from Dayton, Ohio. Yea Ohio. He went to Michigan State to play basketball. Yea Michigan State! May Adreian be blessed thru out his life. I don't know much about Lacey, but I came across this tweet she wrote in February and it pretty much says it all about her I think. 

"I refuse to be a victim," she tweeted on Feb. 13. "No matter what I've been through, I'm still here. I have a history of victory." Lacey Holsworth

http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/ncaab-the-dagger/lacey-holsworth--friend-of-msu-s-adreian-payne--has-died-122652140.html



Lacey Holsworth, Friend of Adreian Payne, Passes Away After Battle with Cancer

Thanks for your leadership Adreian. Thanks for your courage Lacey.

Now Go Out and Hug a Child Today! Any Child!!!

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Hard Work and Imagination

Continuing with Inspiration Week. I just named it that, so that makes it official. We don't need a government ruling or anything. Just go out and inspire others! The Rwandans started the week by inspiring me with the act of Forgiveness.
 
Below is a video of some kids who started their own soccer club in the most unlikely of places! They used some imagination and hard work! You can get a lot done with those two attributes as these kids prove. It is a worthy video and with the World Cup coming up soon, Danny Donuts and I would like to share it with you.
 
 
Also, look for Mine and Danny's new book coming out soon. It will be a fun and informative World Cup Guide Book. I will send details after we have it all finished.
 
 
          The Red White and Blues Brothers. Ready for a USA soccer triumph! Are you ready?

Now Go Out and Hug Some Soccer Kids Today!!!

Monday, April 7, 2014

Courage, Love, Faith and Forgiveness (A Tribute to Rwanda Genocide Survivors)

Hello dear friends! Today marks the 20th anniversary week of the genocides in Rwanda. My friend Steve Bensen is in Rwanda to teach endoscopy procedures. He has already relieved suffering by doing procedures (Dilations, etc) there that could not be done before. AND he has taught the caring doctors there how to do these procedures as well so they can continue the work! I still find it amazing that we have people like Steve in this world! Bravo!

Steve sent a link to an article in Time Magazine. I am sharing it below as I feel it is a must read, especially if you want to see faces of courage, love, faith and forgiveness! We can learn a lot from the people of Rwanda!

http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2014/04/06/magazine/06-pieter-hugo-rwanda-portraits.html?smid=tw-nytimes&_r=0 

I sit here thinking about my time in Rwanda with my dear friend Kelly. It is a trip I shall never forget. I miss the people I met there, and still hope to return someday! Kelly has a friend who was a survivor of the genocides. He traveled to America on his own at 19. Learned to speak English and put himself thru college. He did this with no help and while his family stayed in Rwanda. They could not afford for all of them to come here. He has not seen his family in many years! Courage!

I sit here thinking about my friends at S.A.C.C.A. Mark and Naomi, an English couple, who did volunteer work in Rwanda. They noticed tons of street children there, most of whom were products of the genocides. Mark and Naomi fell in love, went home to England to get married, then the day after their marriage they went back to Rwanda to start up the non profit S.A.C.C.A. Quite a honeymoon eh? When I was there in 2006 I saw the results of their work. Children laughing, playing, eating, and learning! All because two foreigners felt they could help, and they did! Love!

I sit her thinking of my friend Emily Cavanagh. She used to work with the homeless in NYC. There she met a genocide survivor. This woman is now Emily's friend. She barely escaped death, traveled to America on her own, lived homeless in NYC til she could get on her feet, and wrote a book about it all! Emily wrote a tribute song for her friend called "Dark Was The Night" (On I-tunes if you haven't heard it already). Faith!

We all have Courage, Love, Faith and Forgiveness inside of us. We just need to let them come out and show themselves. And they do! They come in various forms. The Rwandan people have shown us, as the article above tells us. Forgiveness!

May you all have a blessed week as we remember this tragedy so it may never happen again. Let's celebrate the people in this world who are doing what they can to change, and to show the values of these four words!

                                                           Courage
 
          I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.  - Nelson Mandela

                                              Love

         

                                              Faith


                                        Forgiveness


              Now Go Out and Hug Everyone Today!!!
 

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Love the Hell out of them

Hello and Happy Hump Day. For some reason I was having random thoughts on my way to work today. One in particular made me chuckle somewhat and reflect, so I thought I would share it. As far as I know this is my original quote, unless I heard it somewhere else and my memory is just now recalling it? Either way I like it. Tell me what you think.

             "If you love the Hell OUT of someone, then they can be in Heaven"

For some reason I really liked how this quote came out of me. It is somewhat a version of kill them with kindness I guess, but in my quote nobody "dies". I find it is very true as well. If you just love and love and love someone, no matter what they have done or said or felt... then it is possible to love the Hell right OUT of them! Maybe not always, but it IS possible right? What do you think? Fantasy of mine or some validation? I feel my grandmother was very good at this!! God Love Her!!


I think these moose might love each other. If not, this photo makes me chuckle anyway. Taken this past weekend  in Millcreek Canyon near Salt Lake City. Such lovely, fun creatures I think.


Now Go Out and Hug The Hell OUT of Someone Today!!!

 

Thursday, March 6, 2014

PJ's Forgotten Children

My cousin just introduced me to PJ's Forgotten Children in Sandy, Utah. What a lovely organization and idea. It is a non profit, run "soul"ly by volunteers. They collect clothes, books, hygiene products and some toys throughout the year, and then at Christmas they pack and distribute 500-700 gift bags for local children in need. The children they distribute to have been effected by mental illness in one way or another. Whether their parent, or a sibling, or they deal with mental illness. They are referred to the organization by therapist who work with the kids. It is a glorious idea and one I hope to join in with in November when they start dividing things up. If you live in the Salt Lake City or Sandy areas, I recommend joining in with donations or volunteering your time and your kid's time!

Below is a photo of a poem written by a 12 year old girl who benefited from PJ's generosity and kindness! I hope you can read the words clearly. If not, let me know and I can email them to you.


Now Go Out and Hug a Child Today!!!